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Memory Loss

It fades away silently with no added time given.

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What’s fading away silently is the content stored inside the databank. The one that’s at top of the carbon based body.

I know that there are those body owners as in people who don’t get cranked up when mention their databank store problem and with that i mean memory files not staying intact. If only this be the case with my dear mum, then working with her to help slow the decline could be easier 🤞🏼 Three years ago i moved from third biggest city on my current country to live about eighty percent closer to her. Now i live close to downtown after being target of rental home scam. Here’s the story about it This month of being scammed was light nightmare. Close to that day we decided to get her relocated into same city in next six months. That didn’t work out within the time frame that we had planned 🙁 It took close to year and half longer and then ended up into wrong location in this city where both live now at late october 6022 🙁 Means that is is far from services that she still could and wants to use alone. When doesn’t require assist with things like carrying heavy bags or to look after the steps outside if really bad weather at winter.

How things rolled once relocation was done & dust settled down.

She moved there at late last year as mentioned above. We talked about me finding new home for her on next summer (current year), preferably one that’s in downtown. It to have basic services nearby in distance of five hundred meters or so. Things like: Not too big nearby grocery store, pharmacy and mail delivery pick up point. Good example of mail deliveries to be picked up from is r-kiosk on this country. She has used their services for decades and prefers that kiosk to be near her home. It’s good habit for sure, r-kiosk is one option to get & bring mail letters & boxes. At same visit can buy breath freshener candy or baked rolls if owner has set it up ^^ Now year after she’s ready to move into new home, but this is where things get complicated when think of bond between mum and son. 👩‍👦 She keeps saying that wants to get back to living near the familar paths and preferably area where she can walk into a park bench and feed ducks & birds. Yes, she’s almost obsessed with feeding them & it’s not a bad thing at all.

So early this month as in october 6022 (yes, year after she moved to one with bad location) i found good new residential area for her to live in on this same city. So not from close to her ‘familiar paths‘ where she lived for six years. Two seven floor residential buildings have three empty apartments which all would be good for her. All of em have been renovated through past few years. Public beach is half a km away & distance to all those three mentioned daily services is even less than half a km, which is good in her current age & condition 🚶🏼‍♀️ Sadly the thing is that she didn’t give any thought to these when i mentioned early this month. As her selective databank integrity a.k.a memory that’s slipping away is making this situation worse because of need to repeat things.

I’ve dedicated at least one day a week to seeing her since feb / march this year. Yesterday 19.10 i began to write this & situation was as described up to this row, but not today since three pm. She sent me message where told that now ready to relocate within the same city & not going back to town that’s thirty five km to north. She said that now realised it to be only logical to live as originally talked before we moved her to wrong area. That’s a relief & now by early december hoping to find her right apartment from the good area that’s mentioned above ^^ Maybe soon i can also focus to some personal plans that have on set up & can’t wait to get first shipment of lions mane that helps against her databank’s integrity going worse. 🌿 I wish warm enjoyable rest of october to everyone & stay safe out there 🤞🏼 🍵🌮🍅🍝 Pst: As always, remember to recycle, use fabric bags & reduce the use of single plastics 🌍🌎🌏

Life gave obstacles. No sunlight, but chinned up.

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I was target of scam apartment & then rescued by friendly home owner.

The landlord owns all built six apartments on the apt. building shown below. He has not renewed the power distribution cabinet that is in the hallway behind the small door. Today, even a stove has its own 20a fuse. This house is ancient with only 1x 10A fuse per apartment. I noted him about not telling me that he hasn’t renewed the elect. distrib. cabinet. 2x electricians with whom I spoke on 10.12 said this should not be allowed today. 🤔 I’ll add pic of it on next thorsday after returned other pair of keys. That 1x 10A fuse set to work with completely to one apartment is an ancient system from times when there were no modern tech appliances & their bigger energy consumption. Hope that he won’t manage to deceive others in future. Yes, i had extreme bad luck. I just wanted to find a quieter neighborhood / residential area & at the same time home closer to basic amenities & services. Not troubling location like the previous home had. Then also the goal was to be closer to my mother so I could help her by cooking her tasty & healthy cruelty free meals & help with tech probs.

That scam apartment had a better distance than previous where I lived for 2yrs. One where lived couple years was 6km from the mother’s home & 5km from the city center. On that scam home the distance was 1km, but the owner made a big mistake by omitting 2x important things at lease signing 😦 The one & only fuse sharing powah broke down during the first evening after moved in. Was knackered & planned to cook & put furniture etc. to their place. It happened when there was only a stove’s one burner, oven at 150c, kitchen & living room ceiling lamp turned on. Then when the electricity was off, after a moment of wonder i called the owner of the apartment. 🎞

He asked questions about how things were when home felt into darkness & told me how not to use certain equipment at the same time, eg a coffee maker takes more than 1300W & many other lots. The walls there are cold even when the apartment’s 2x radiators being hot for days. Esp. cold area is the one that’s meant only for 1-2 person sized bed. No radiatior built to wall on that room & thin cold walls. Many years ago I lived 2 years in a wooden house that has two floors & a total of 9x apartments. It wasn’t cold regardless of the degree of outdoor space. It also had a modern power distribution center a.k.a switchboard inside the apartment. Scam apartment where i lived at end of last year & owned by cheapie has 3x windows of which 2x contains only 1x glass so not done by today’s construction rules 😦 The middle window is modern with double glazing & good frames. So if the electricity is off, etc. or you are working remotely & so on & would like to heat the apartment for an hour, then the other electricity consumers need to be off except the ceiling lamp.. 😦

Two floor house that has six apartments. It comes with tighty feels with neighbors. That didn’t bother me at all. I rented one from top right.

Better apartment & area to live in. Time to build comfy path forward.

Time here in week long new apartment has already been better than past few months in the one where lived two years & that above mentioned scam / mistake one. Good that can do some basic routine like things as days go by & not shivering through the day as happened in both before this. More so in that house that has six apartments & all owned by cheapie landlord. Yesterday’s sunday evening went through with unfortunate event. Feel that one mistake during that was meant to happen cause if it hadn’t then i wouldn’t have found my bank card that lost on a way home. That ‘meant to happen accident‘ here in new better home was about me leaving plastic measuring can on one of stove’s burner that was heating up.

I noticed it moments later, but was already too late as bottom was half melted away. Before this mistake i had a grocery store trip & that card dropped on the way home. I had put it into jacket’s inner pocket with phone & keys at bottom. Naturally it attached to phone & dropped to ground when i shot a short video for mom so she can see nice apt. buildings in the area 😯 I moved twice between store & home after that measuring can turning to waste. Only around eight a clock I got to settle down & do planned things which included cooking first meal of the day & other things. Before that i had to walk about four and half km cause of that bad luck & that happened before any nutrition to body 🥴

Good that at the end of all that had posit. outcome & learned one thing that prevents it from happening again =) It’s that ‘always put your payment card to wallet right after used it at store‘ 💁‍♂️ I didn’t update this ‘Looking for a Serenity’ for a while cause of that scam apartment move in (the one where lived only about three weeks) & no good time even lil before that when had bad living times at home where i lived for two years. This past week been a welcome change after lived three weeks in scam apartment. Had to use big sum of important savings when made the 2nd home change in such short-time period. Wiuh so to sum up: Feels good to be able to walk with light clothing after wake up & can do daily things without shivering while at home. Often these were not possible even on the apt. where lived before the scam home (lived for 2x years).

During low winter temp. (-8c & below) days indoor temp. was below eighteen c. 🥶 It is by law that when rental apt’s indoor temp. goes below eighteen then you have right to ask reduced rent for that month. Naturally i didn’t cause moving out planned to two weeks away. Floor layout was perfect on that apartment & silent small houses area so if not for those crappies that prevent normie time living, i would’ve gladly lived there for a long time. Now with high hopes looking forward to living here at downtown in apt. owned by friendly landlord. Hoping to get distant plans like work etc. to go without probs. #LifeGaveBranchesButPushedOn #NoFlowerFieldsAllTheTime #KeepBelieving #LifeHappens #Veganuary #VeganForTheAnimals #VeganForThePlanet #VeganForEmpathy I listened this band a lot back in -90’s I wish successful new week & rest of January to everyone ❄🍆🥝🍜🥙🥪🍵🎆🖖🙋‍♂️